How can I tie my inane stories towards the topic of the Table Rush Talk show? What a great Christmas Holiday. Reflecting on the love with my family. Perhaps not how you expected it. My from “Point A to Point B Theory”. I was working on saying yes. Some people got to work on saying no. My personality was coming out during that football game…and someone was loving me for who I am.
How can I tie my inane stories towards the topic of the Table Rush Talk show? What a great Christmas Holiday. Reflecting on the love with my family. Perhaps not how you expected it. My from “Point A to Point B Theory”. I was working on saying yes. Some people got to work on saying no. My personality was coming out during that football game…and someone was loving me for who I am.
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Mischa Zvegintzov 00:02
Thank you zoom recording and process. I will never get tired of that. The title of this episode, "someone was happy I was screaming at the TV". Yes, indeed. Somebody was happy I was screaming at the TV. And I'm going to relate that to a um... My job on this episode is to relate that story to the eye to the Table Rush. That that's what I'm thinking these days. How can I tie my inane stories towards the topic of the Table Rush Talk Show? So I'm going to do that. You're also going to be gifted with a few ramblings, I am sure.
Mischa Zvegintzov 00:51
(Intro) You know when someone is selling from stage. And at the end, the audience gets up and rushes to the back of the room to buy. That's a Table Rush. My name is Misha Z. And the Table Rush Talk Show is all about bringing you the tools, strategies and tactics that you can use to grow your audience and inspire them to buy.
Mischa Zvegintzov 01:17
And I'm gonna start with this. i Boy, it was a heavy couple of days a great I'm recording this right around the Chris I'm recording this right around Christmas time. And great great great, great Christmas. Just so much love with my family. You know my two sons dawn, the boy's mom, my dear friend Dawn we've been gifted with a great friendship and then you know time with EX in laws, who are still friends have circled around to good friends as well. So I'm just reflecting thank you is that reflect? I offer you this space to reflect as well. I'm the love that is in your family, perhaps not how you expected.
Mischa Zvegintzov 02:21
So, you know, the Christmas time and I was really working on this time of just saying okay, as much as pot as possible. being amiable as much as possible. being gracious as much as possible. and not begrudgingly so. fixing my little look here thing, but not, you know, not begrudgingly, like truly heartfelt. like, "okay", "okay", and in trusting that things will shake out the way they're supposed to. And I find so much in life, if you if you look at, you know, we're going from a point A to point B, oftentimes, and someone will ask us about point B, do you want to go to the, to the family dinner with me, Misha? you know, to the to my dad's house, that would be Dawn? right to the X in laws for dinner. And there's point B, that's point B and then there's point A is where we are today. And you know, a lot of times it seems like that point B is inevitable. And how am I going to make the journey to point B? Am I going to make it easy and loving and amazing or am I gonna fight all the way there? So, you know, at this point, I know this about dawn that she likes to she likes. Our family likes Christmas Cooper's the outlier. Cooper's The Grinch, admittedly, so it's fun. It's fun. It's funny. So this is... Cooper, if you're listening to this. I love you. He can be crunchy at Christmas. But, you know, the list of Christmas things is started coming from Dawn. And again, I say this with love. I'm going to tie this into the importance of the Table Rush I swear to you.
Mischa Zvegintzov 04:19
You know, let's go in on presents for Cooper. You know, trying Don's trying to make sure we've got equal cost with the boys presents. And I saw I'm just left a Yes. Okay. Sounds good. Because that stuff's coming. Anyway. Fast forward, you know, we've got you know, Christmas what do we do on Christmas day? Breakfast dinners, who's where we opened in presence all these things. and so lots of yeses, yeses and and some people need to learn how to say no and set up those hard boundaries. I'm not saying this is for everybody. Some people got to say no. Some people got to say no, because they overcommit all the time. over committing, I don't have that problem, it's easy for me to say no.
Mischa Zvegintzov 05:10
So you know, in my peak sales years, I was very confident. very confident, and very successful for me, right. that I was successful as a sales as a home loan officer, you know, that was my peak salesman moment. And had a couple of great... you know good success and a couple of great companies and, and then, you know, wanted to pivot out of mortgages. divorce happened. tried to start a business it failed, parents died, more failed relationships. if you've been listening to this podcast, you've, you've heard me talk about that. And I don't say that "woe is me" I just... life can get super interesting, some points. But my point is, is that that time, like, I was very confident, man for many, many years and lots of success and, and a glass is half full type of a guy. and then, you know, when I got into my 40s, in the, you know, a lot of issues came up to column issues, you know, divorce, you know, more failed relationships. Teenagers not doing what you want. My confidence was shaken. I guess that is my point. My confidence was absolutely shaken. I have always been an outgoing guy. Not always but you know, an outgoing, like I said, competent, this and that and actually very confident in in my choices. Oftentimes, if I made a mistake, no problem. plow forward, don't look back, which I love that idea to look back and learn but don't. And I trying to get to the point here.
Mischa Zvegintzov 07:21
What else can I say? Just that my confidence. Yeah, my confidence, which was shattered and definitely in the relationship space. You know, another, I had fallen in love with another woman. After Dawn. I love you, Dawn. But I had fallen in love with this other woman after Dawn and I got divorced, moved in with another girl, blah, blah, that relationship fell apart. And it definitely, definitely messed with my psyche. You know, I was not the same confident person, I was coming out of that. Just like a combination of real loss of confidence in relationships. Also had loss in confidence in my career. my parents had died and other things happened. So I had loss of confidence in life. Right. And I also back then, you know, I was very much... when I say confident in who I was. I I didn't really care what you thought of me, was like I am who I am. Take me or leave me. And depending on how that's presented, you know, I think that can be good. It's like I am who I am. I love myself. It's all good. Right? Take me or leave me historically, or back in the day that could have come across as very cocky. Could have come across as very cocky. and it oftentimes was. so there was some arrogance within. So fast forward to today, you know, I'm definitely feel like I'm finding... I am who I am. Take me or leave me, but with not laced in arrogance. But I still have trace trace trace insecurities. Or I'm really aware of how deep insecurity had come back to me. Right or finding that new way forward?
Mischa Zvegintzov 09:39
I'm not quite sure how to say but I'll fast forward at the end law's house graciously x in law's house. Day after Christmas. We're having our Christmas lunch. Intimate. Meaning small. Me. myself. Her dad Jerry. Love you Jerry. If you happen to listen to this, his wife Veronica is full fourth wife, our favorite Jerry's favorite wife. Veronica frickin love you, Veronica. And my youngest son, Waylon, he was so great. He was is so great. and quick, I'll just say one thing there. you know, Cooper was so positive this Christmas and really just leaned in and showed up and did his best to embrace it all. and did a fabulous job on it. So we were commenting a lot about that. And I was thinking, Oh, my gosh, you know, Whales is just such a shining light most of the time that I need to tell him he did an amazing job to. because Wales, he showed up in a big way. What I just a beautiful Christmas.
Mischa Zvegintzov 10:45
So we're watching football. And I'm being vocal, every now and then at the game, you know, yelling Yeah, or Oh, or whatever, you know, great catch. And I can be loud and boisterous. And I kept on saying, "Sorry", I kept on saying sorry, and kind of, you know, going shhh hunch in my shoulder. Sorry, sorry, whenever I would react, sorry, sorry. And Veronica was loving my emoting and to the TV, to the football game, because Jerry doesn't. And I was, you know, having fun with a football game. And so Veronica was loving it. She's like, I love it. I love that you're so emotional, if it was nothing crazy, but that, you know, you're showing emotion towards the game and having fun. She's like Jerry, Jerry just doesn't do that. He's just, he's just no emotions during the football games. And I'm not saying either is right or wrong. But what I am saying is, I was watching the football game, I was having fun, I was letting that fun show and the Mischa way. And Veronica was grooving on it. And so I think about the podcast, the podcasting that I do, the YouTube'ing that I do, the blogging that I do that we do that all of us that are sort of embracing, you know, putting ourselves out there in that medium. And these mediums.
Mischa Zvegintzov 12:30
There's people out there, that like how we present ourselves, it may take us a while to find them. But we just got to do it and trust, and we don't need to be insecure, or we can be secure in our insecuridness. We can know that. If we're being authentic and going for it, there's people out there, they're gonna that that love us for who we are. And that was just such a powerful lesson for me. And that was a very reflective moment of like, oh, yeah, like my personality was coming out during that football game. And someone was loving me for who I am. So good. Thank you for that, Veronica. And so I get to keep doing that with my podcast, with the YouTube channel. With the blog that's coming. I just gonna keep being me. Because there are a percentage of people out there who like it, learn from it, embrace it, enjoy it. And I and I bring value in that way. So there you go. There's my can't remember how I started this something about yelling at the TV. Anyway, be yourselves people. Be yourselves. Put yourself out there, go for it. We'll keep at it. Love to all.
Mischa Zvegintzov 14:07
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