Time to make the decision on whether to renew with the coaching group I'm in. Do I have the capacity to do the next steps? It's expensive. Keep who I can help in focus. And as long as I focus on service, the answer is clear. "Be free of the ego to make heartfelt decisions and your life will be inspired and amazing.”
Time to make the decision on whether to renew with the coaching group I'm in. Do I have the capacity to do the next steps? It's expensive. Keep who I can help in focus. And as long as I focus on service, the answer is clear. "Be free of the ego to make heartfelt decisions and your life will be inspired and amazing.”
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Transcript: Mischa Z: 00:03 As I said, on the last episode, it's time to renew for, to make the decision about whether to renew for the two CCX coaching group I'm in and for anybody that's new or has forgotten. Part of this coaching group has gotten me to publishing every day, hence this episode, that this podcast that you're listening to right now, the slap the accelerated path to peace podcast and also the summit, the tools for a good life summit. Those are two things that I've done. And now I'm tasked with putting myself out there more on Facebook groups and trying to build a bigger audience and, and start driving some organic traffic versus paid traffic. So that's kind of cool. Right. But I'm definitely nervous about, do I have the capacity to daily, you know, do those, do those things. Um, so that's like a question that I've got in my mind.
Mischa Z: 01:15 Um, also hold please, the last episode, um, the interweb crashed and, uh, right in the middle of the episode. And so the recording popped up, so I was like, oh my gosh, you have to see if I have to redo it, do it, or whatever, sorry, diversion, perhaps I'll edit this section out when I go to, uh, to, uh, editing this part, this podcast episode. Um, so yeah, the two CCX got me publishing every day on a podcast. I did a summit to start building a list and developing relationships with people on my dream 100. People who I would like to work with, collaborate with, communicate, with develop relationships with in the space that I am playing. And now it's time to start creating products, offerables , something to offer you the people.
Mischa Z: 02:26 And that's what I will do. Year two, hopefully is start creating offer interested in and trying to create funnels to drive sales of said product. Products. Um, and so the last episode will, what if I wasn't worried about money? Because up to this point, it's been a losing financial proposition and it was, well, gosh, if money wasn't an object, heck guide, do it. Cause I'm having fun and learning and being of service and all these things. So the next question was to help me with this decision was keep who I can help in focus. So again, I'm looking to renew the two CCX, which is a high-end coaching program. So it was expensive and I'm like, oh my gosh, should I do this? And what am I going to do? And it can be such a big thing in the universe, God source. Hm.
Mischa Z: 03:35 The infinite intelligence dropped the thought into my head, keep who I can help and focus. So that avatar, that avatar, that elusive, um, that elusive, uh, ideal of who I can help. And so I did have who, who can I help? So I did a little bit of writing and this was who I can help. Um, I can help, I help growth minded high-performers move beyond the constant worries of money, which is funny. Cause I'm just was talking about financial worries. Hopefully I'll move past that and just sign on the line that is dotted. And the need for relationships so that they can thrive in the second half of life.
Mischa Z: 04:31 So if I can keep that person in mind, those high performers who write like I was a high performer and one of the best decisions I ever made was quitting my high performing career to do what other things that my heart was calling me to do. And throughout my life, I've made many hard decisions like that, that have all been awesome and led to a really cool life I'd life. Actually that my son said to me the other day, I did an episode about this. I want to have cool experiences like that. I want to have cool adventures like that. So I've had a very adventurous life, which is super fun to think about. So that provided me sort of some freedom to, to be like, yeah, all I need to do is keep that ideal in mind being of service to that person out there.
Mischa Z: 05:32 Cause that was a place I was suffering, right? Like I was suffering. I was in a job that I didn't want to be in. And I was stuck in there because my identity of being a successful mortgage banker kept me there. Um, society's pressure of, "you've got to know what to do next". You've gotta be earning, producing succeeding. I was a type sales like I was, was in it and, and I knew my time was done, but I couldn't leave. As a matter of fact, I had the full godfather moment of, of quitting and then divorce happened like quitting. I, I did actually, I was out of it. And the judge, the judge I had taken of a vocational evaluation, I believe is what you called it. And they're like, sorry, my friend, you have child support and alimony to pay. And the one thing you know, how to do well currently is mortgage banking. So we know you can do it. So we're going to assume that you are and assign a financial number based on what you could be making if you were in mortgage banking. And um, at the time I was like "sh*t". Sorry about the language godfather moment. "Every time I leave you pull me back in". So, um, I ended up back in mortgages.
Mischa Z: 07:12 Isn't that funny? So anyway, I was finally able to leave, but it was a very tough decision. I did some heavy, heavy, cool work that helped me realize instantly all of a sudden I was like, oh my God, it's time to go. I see that. I see the vision for the future, which happened to be a stay at home. Dad gave me the courage to be a stay at home dad to my then a tween and teen boys, two boys. Um, so that was a heavy dark place for me. If that transitional point until I finally had the courage to, or, or I saw like take the leap, take the leap, quit the job.
Mischa Z: 08:03 It's okay that you don't see what's next because I did not see what was next. It gave me the courage to walk away without knowing what was next. And boy it was so beautiful and one of the best, best decisions I ever made. And if there's previous episodes where I talk about the depth of despair that brought me to that moment, um, you know, breakups, all kinds of things. Uh, yeah. So if I can keep that person in focus that I can help them, not quite sure how yet, perhaps, maybe the summit helped. Maybe these podcast episodes are helping some of you out there who are in that state.
Mischa Z: 08:55 But I had the, you know, somebody else told me when I was wanting to vamanos or, or leave the 2CCX when it came time to brass tacks for the sonnet. And I could, I either needed to leave the two CCX or tackle the summit in Kent said, Kent said "you're being selfish, Mischa. You've got people to help buckle down, do the summit, quit being selfish". And I was like. And so there, it was again, keep who I can help in focus. So there you go. That, and if what I wasn't worried about money, those two things, you know, if I was like, yeah, the money thing will sort itself out. It always does have always have has. And that doesn't mean there's going to be more riches or this or that or the other thing, or it doesn't mean I won't have to have a roommate or something like that, or who knows if I had parents to go live with it wouldn't mean that I wouldn't have to move back in with mom and dad I'm way far away from that. But those are funny that those fears can sort of materialize.
Mischa Z: 10:25 And as long as I focus on service, the answer is clear. Be free of the ego to make heartfelt decisions and your life will be inspired and amazing. That's what I've got. Have a great day.