As I contemplate singing lessons I’m remember how I was told when I was young that I can’t sing. And was often asked to stop. Which makes me wonder do I have doubts about the sound of my voice. Both literally and figuratively. And then there’s one of my mommy issues...
As I contemplate singing lessons I’m remember how I was told when I was young that I can’t sing. And was often asked to stop. Which makes me wonder do I have doubts about the sound of my voice. Both literally and figuratively. And then there’s one of my mommy issues…
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As people keep referencing Robert Plant, Robert Daltry, Brian May I’ve got it in my head that I should learn how to sing. Sing the blues. I’ve always wanted to sing the blues. Play the Geetar and sing the blues. Man I should go see if could take singing lessons.
There is a route where I walk in the mornings where there is a place where they teach music lessons. I went so far as to walk by it and see if they teach singing lessons. But to no avail.
I have an old memory from back in the day. I had an old Walkman. Back in 7th, 8th, 9th grade… I would listen to my music and I would sing. And my good friend Sam Day did not like my singing and would ask me to stop because he did not like my singing. My father used to ask me, Father: “what did you do with the money?” Young Mischa: “What money?” Father: “The money that I gave you for singing lessons.” Cause I guess I can’t sing it turns out.
Can I put all that aside? It’s such an interesting thing these ideas that get planted in our head. Perhaps I’ve been worried about my voice my whole life? Both literally and figuratively. I have been insecure about the sound of my voice for many years. I got into cold calling and I got over it. I was told to practice and listen to yourself.
Also figuratively. It can be like my ideas don’t matter. My ideas don’t hold value. My thoughts aren’t worthy. Perhaps there’s nooks and crannies where that idea has still taken hold. I think it’s kind of a cool concept as I talk about it.
I should probably go take singing lessons it would be so good for me on so many levels.
I’ve always had a thing for cute moms. Even in my youth. And still to this day. I wonder if it’s because my mother was gone for much my childhood. And I wonder if that’s what’s so alluring to me, that mother child relationship that I still subconsciously crave.
I believe I’ve transcended many of my voice issues. Definitely literally as I will jump on a microphone and a video. I even finally sang karaoke 3 or 4 years ago. I thought there was no way I’d ever be able to sing Karaoke. Kind of like dancing durning a wedding. I’m not happy about it but I’ll do it :).
I do get fun feedback that I’ve got a good podcast voice. So that’s kind of fun.
No figuratively…Definitely refining or searching or find that voice I feel like. I’m having fun exploring it and going for it. Just grab the mic go and start talking. You have no audience anyway. You literally have nothing to loose. Other than blowing up whatever massive or meager audience you have and then dying a slow painful death of humiliation. But other than that not much to worry about.
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