Two conversations where I would normally prejudge and interrupt I was gifted with the ability to listen. There’s hope for me as a potential boyfriend yet!
Two conversations where I would normally prejudge and interrupt I was gifted with the ability to listen. There’s hope for me as a potential boyfriend yet!
Episode notes:
I had these two conversations yesterday and they shed light on the growth that I’ve had.
This relatively long term lady friend who went through a divorce recently, and that is hard… No one is always shiny in a divorce. She was talking I wanted to have answers… and then it hit me, she was just wanting to talk and express feelings so I finally shut up and listen. And at the end of it, after all that listening, I might be able to be a good boyfriend after all.
And then another good friend and I were talking and it got heavy super fast. And for whatever reason I did not share an opinion. I just kept listening and listening and listening. I was consciously just trying to listen without judging. And finally he asked what I think about all that.
Historically - I can start prejudging what they are going to say so I will cut them off mid stream and give my opinion. This time I did neither of those things! It’s funny I have heard many many times I am a great listener. In this situation where I would usually have some impatience with this particular friend, I was gifted with patience. And you know what it felt pretty gosh darned good. It felt like a win, “There is hope for me as a friend yet.”
Copy is getting done. I’m getting the copy done much faster than I thought. But still slower than I want. But it is getting done. Copy for the summit. You want to start promoting the summit 3 weeks before the summit. So you want the copy done well by then. So you can entice people to register for said summit.
I am literally putting everything I have into the summit. Resources, energy, thoughts, emotions. and I’m letting go of expectations of what’s going to happen. It’s fun to have something you’re passionate about.
The journey is where it’s at right now. Outcomes and my anticipation at this point is that… it’s ok if nothing happens of note with it. I’m not trying to say that that’s whats going to happen and put that out there. I’m just trying to say it’s ok no matter what… And I’ve put literally everything I’ve got into it.
There’s hope for me as a potential boyfriend. There’s hope for me as a friend with people where maybe I’m usually impatient and prejudge.
I’m going to leave you with this thought, I definitely believe that decisions have already been made, the way the summit is going to go down has already happened…
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