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Being able to love and admire someone for who they are. And know “FU&K YEAH” that’s in me too!

Episode Summary

Waylon, my youngest son, graduated on the day that I recorded this. And it susses out all kinds of emotions. From end of child support payments to the massive marker of time it’s quite a day. And my friend drops an amazing thought bomb on me. “How about if you spot it you got it and it's about what you admire in people. If you spot it you’ve got that.” And well Waylon just is amazing to me so…

Episode Notes

Waylon, my youngest son, graduated on the day that I recorded this.  And it susses out all kinds of emotions.  From end of child support payments to the massive marker of time it’s quite a day.  And my friend drops an amazing thought bomb on me.  “How about if you spot it you got it and it's about what you admire in people.  If you spot it you’ve got that.”  And well Waylon just is amazing to me so…

Episode notes:

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Today was the day that my 2nd son, my youngest son, I have two sons, graduated high school.

I interviewed Arlina Allen (interview #28)….  And she said the most impactful thing to me.  I am all in on the “if you spot it you got it”.  But I always think of it in terms of negatives.  So I judge this person and it’s a reflection of myself.   She said how about this, how about if you spot it you got it and its about what you admire in people.  If you spot it you’ve got that.

“Holy crap!” That is amazing…. So I started thinking about who do I admire. That’s a cool thought.  So that’s been brewing in my mind. And as I’m seeing people I like I’m like “I’ve got that!”

I recorded this on June 11… my son graduated high school today. My other son two years ago this day. It’s a very big marker of time.  And I’m sensitive to that :).  Tmi- my child support ended. And I thought it was going to be one of those “be all end all” type of moments. And it wasn’t. It’s not that big a deal. Which is crazy to me.  My boys graduating, wow!  That heavy dadness is complete.  

Waylon today at graduation - he was just having fun at graduation.  He spontaneously erupted at the crowd in this beautiful way.  Someone happened to snap a picture. And I was like I fucking love him!  Waylon’s personality is so rad.  I admire it so.  

…and I was thinking of Arlina. Omg, I’ve got a personality and I’ve got to love that about myself. It’s this cathartic moment :).  Loving myself for who I am loving people for who they are :).

Cooper lee showed up for his brother in a big way!  He made it through the two hour graduation.  Encouraging his brother. I just can’t tell you how much I love him too.

Dawn and I shedding tears of joy.  And just thinking of the people who have gone before and who are coming behind. Life is trippy.  If you’ve had kids and made it through god bless you.  If you’ve got young ones and you're on your way god bless you.

They (Cooper and Waylon) hugged and it was beautiful.  

Amy torn god bless you for snapping that picture.  OMG!  So amazing!

And then me just being able to love my boys for who they are and what I admire in them and go “you know what?  That’s in me too. Fuck Yeah!”

Omg. All these interviews. I was meditating today. Just so tired.  Just interviewing people.  It just emotionally wears me out.  They are just amazing.  

Both Robert Drysdale and Anthony Trucks talked about loving themselves and not needing to please everybody.  As points of learning as they’ve gotten older.  I really needed to hear it.  It’s been a process of loving who I am.  Loving who we are in a non arrogant way.  That’s been the trick for me. Love me or leave me wrapped up in as little arrogance as possible.  

…I was physically and mentally exhausted from the summit.  And beat down.  And I asked the universe “how can I be of service to Waylon? How can I make this about Waylon today?”  And my attitude changed in an instant.  

I was just laughing as crying on my walk after it all.

The big marker of time “check”.

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